the hunt has begun
I'm in the market for a new place to live. Craigslist has become my new obsession and I think I am looking at the right time because today was the day I started looking and by the end of the day I had 5 meet & judge appointments lined up. It is an interesting phenomenon. I read an article the other day about how it is impossible to completely judge a person in a job interview. What about deciding to live with someone? Based on that, by the time you've gotten to know your roommate(s) it is too late. So we shall see, especially since i have a limited budget but am also picky about the location and who I live with. Too bad nothing is easy in life. If it was easy, i'd be moving in with the bf. But I'm not going to do that. I don't care what people say, I'm sticking to my gut and there's going to be a ring on my finger before that happens. It's wierd to think about the future like that right now. Especially since I already feel like I'm married and in a rut with the bf.Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that. Bf and I are/were having issues. My way of solving it is to shut myself off from him, which I had been doing for the past couple weeks. Until we finally let it all out. It started with the fact that I wasn't excited for him and him becoming a condo owner...and acting wierd too. I must commend him for finally recognizing the fact that I've been upset. Too bad it took this long. And we let our feelings out, I cried, he tried to blame me. I cried more and explained that I was feeling underappreciated - which is not a good thing to be feeling not even 2 years into a relationship. Of course, according to A, it has because we've hit the 1.5 yr mark, and once you hit that point things get more strained in the relationship. I told myself I wasn't going to let that happen. So we'll see if things get better starting today.

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